Archive for February 27th, 2008

27
Feb

highlights from the durex global sex survey

The title speaks for itself. After checking with Kel, it would seem we’re doing rather nicely so far :)

  • People worldwide are having sex for the first time at an average age of 17.7;
  • Women are sexually active earlier than men - at 17.5 compared with 17.8;
  • Young people are having sex for the first time at a younger age than previous generations - while the over 45s were 18.2 and 21-24 year olds were 17.5, 16-20 year olds were just 16.5;
  • Almost three in 10 (29%) say they were 16 or under when they lost their virginity;
  • More than a third (35%) have had unprotected sex without knowing their partner’s sexual history;
  • Almost a quarter (24%) of 16-20 year olds admit to having taken this risk at least once and the figure rises to more than half in the 35-plus age group;
  • More than half of men globally (59%) would be willing to take the male contraceptive pill - but less than half of women would trust a man to take it responsibly;
  • Half of all respondents are more worried about HIV/AIDS than any other sexually transmitted infection (STI);
  • Women are far more concerned about the possibility of unplanned pregnancy than men, 30% compared to 20%;
  • Globally, people are having sex an average of 103 times a year with women (106) having sex more frequently than men (101);
  • 35-44 year olds are having the most sex (116) compared to just 91 times for the 16-20 age group;
  • On average, people across the world spend 19.7 minutes on foreplay with men claiming to spend more time than women - 20.2 and 18.8 respectively;
  • The younger age groups take the longest - 21.6 minutes for 16-20 year olds and 19.1 for 21-24 year olds compared to 17.3 minutes for the over 55s;
  • The British spend the most time on foreplay (22.5 minutes), followed closely by the Germans (22.2), the Irish (21.8) and the Spanish (21.7);
  • While more than a third (35%) have an orgasm every time they have sex, men are far more likely to do so than women - 45% compared to 17%;
  • More experienced lovers are most likely to have an orgasm every time they have sex with almost half of those in the 35-plus age group (48%) claiming to do so, compared to less than a third (32%) of 16-20 year olds;
  • A quarter of people have faked an orgasm in the past 12 months - although there is a major difference between the sexes with almost four in 10 women (39%) faking it compared to 17% of men;
  • People around the world have had an average number of 10.5 sexual partners;
  • More than a quarter (27%) have had only one partner while 21% have had sex with more than 10 people;
  • Men have had more sexual partners than women - 12.4 compared to 7.2;
  • More than a third (35%) watch pornography with their partner, 22% indulge in blindfolds or handcuffs and one in five uses sex toys;
  • Watching pornography with their partner is more popular with women (38%) than men (33%) as is wearing blindfolds or handcuffs - 27% for women and 19% for men;
  • More than a quarter (27%) own a vibrator or intimate massager, rising to more than a third of both 25-34 year olds and those in the 45-plus age group;
  • Globally, the top three sexual enhancers are pornography (35%), pleasure enhancing condoms (27%) and lubricants (22%);
  • Almost half (49%) of those aged 35-44 have used pornography to add extra spice to their sex lives compared to 40% of 21-24 year olds and 32% of 25-34 year olds;
  • Vibrators are more popular with women (20%) than men (14%) and men are more likely to have used a product which prolongs sexual ntercourse;
  • A toned body (14%) - with the bottom (15%) and breasts and chest (14%) in particular - are the sexiest features. Men focus most on the breasts while women think eyes are the most sexy;
  • One in 10 believe attitude is the sexiest factor while age, wealth and hair colour (all just 1%) are the least important things;

More here: http://www.durex.com/cm/gss2004Content.asp?intQid=391&intMenuOpen=

27
Feb

my world according to my coach

It has been my privilege to work with Alex Cameron for over a year now.  Alex has asked me to write something for about the changes I have seen.

Alex is a very intelligent and a highly driven man.  He is greatly admired by many many people, who appreciate his directness, his honesty and his determination to change the world of telecommunications for the better.

Very often people that are highly driven to achieve something are not only being driven by the wish to travel to their destination, but they are also being driven to escape from their past.  Alex is very open about the difficulties in his family life when he was young, and how much this has shaped him as an adult.  In the time that I have worked with him, Alex has been extremely brave in confronting this, and he has taken some amazing steps to forgive those that caused him so much pain in the past.  The effects of such a dramatic change are there to be seen.  Alex is an amazing person who will change the world, but now the “missile” has now become much more focussed – he knows where he wants to go, and how to achieve it. The energy is far more channeled in a specific direction, and in fact Alex will increasingly be able to use his difficult early life to his advantage – he was not born with a “silver spoon” in his mouth, he comes from the University of Hard Knocks –  this will give him a great deal of “street wisdom”  in the years ahead, with a solid understanding of what is driving different sorts of people.

Everything that Alex will achieve he will have achieved for himself!!!  He has been given no easy ride in his early years!

A meeting with Alex is a very refreshing experience.  The range of subjects we have discussed is immense.  There is a strong spiritual belief that I deeply respect in Alex – and he mixes his spirituality with his realistic view of the world.  Some people have commented that Alex doesn’t listen well to those that don’t agree with him.  He acknowledges that he has not been prepared to accommodate opposing views in the past – but he now realizes that it is the “running away from” that has been driving him on this.  Life is so unbelievably short, and Alex wants to achieve a great deal in the time that has been allotted to him to spend on this planet – up to now time has not allowed him to consider opposing views!    But Alex has increasingly understood that as it is his destiny to be a Leader, then he owes it to all to listen to all, and to take us all with him into the future.

As I write this I am conscious that I have Dinner with Alex again tonight. I am looking forward to it very much – our conversation together is always wide-ranging, deeply penetrating and peppered with a great deal of chaotic hilarity.   I count Alex as a very good friend, I know that I am going to have a fantastic evening with him, and I look forward to spending many years ahead helping him shape the future.

27
Feb

john howard and his right to leave

Its worth posting here what appears to be gaining a lot of traction elsewhere. John Howard (Australian PM) apparently launched into a tirade on Australian national TV and what is fascinating about this, other than such a brave show of strength, is how popular this sentiment is due to the amount of people who want him voted in as the president of their own country. If his treatment of the MV Tampa Refugees was anything to go by, then it would certainly toe the line.

I’m not sure what to make of it yet as i can’t find an official source for it, but here is a verbatim copy of what he supposedly said. If you have a reliable source for it, drop me a line. Australians are nothing if not legendary for their tact and sensitivity.

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Muslims who want to live under Islamic Sharia law were told on Wednesday to get out of Australia, as the government targeted radicals in a bid to head off potential terror attacks.

A day after a group of mainstream Muslim leaders pledged loyalty to Australia and her Queen at a special meeting with Prime Minister John Howard, he and his Ministers made it clear that extremists would face a crackdown. Treasurer Peter Costello, seen as heir apparent to Howard, hinted that some radical clerics could be asked to leave the country if they did not accept that Australia was a secular state, and its laws were made by parliament. “If those are not your values, if you want a country which has Sharia law or a theocratic state, then Australia is not for you“, he said on National Television.

I’d be saying to clerics who are teaching that there are two laws governing people in Australia: one the Australian law and another Islamic law that is false. If you can’t agree with parliamentary law, independent courts, democracy, and would prefer Sharia law and have the opportunity to go to another country, which practices it, perhaps, then, that’s a better option“, Costello said.

Asked whether he meant radical clerics would be forced to leave, he said those with dual citizenship could possibly be asked to move to the other country. Education Minister Brendan Nelson later told reporters that Muslims who did not want to accept local values should “clear off. Basically people who don’t want to be Australians, and who don’t want, to live by Australian values and understand them, well then, they can basically clear off“, he said.

Separately, Howard angered some Australian Muslims on Wednesday by saying he supported spy agencies monitoring the nation’s mosques. Quote: “IMMIGRANTS, NOT AUSTRALIANS, MUST ADAPT. Take It Or Leave It. I am tired of this nation worrying about whether we are offending some individual or their culture. Since the terrorist attacks on Bali, we have experienced a surge in patriotism by the majority of Australians.”

However, the dust from the attacks had barely settled when the ‘politically correct’ crowd began complaining about the possibility that our patriotism was offending others. I am not against immigration, nor do I hold a grudge against anyone who is seeking a better life by coming to Australia . However, there are a few things that those who have recently come to our country, and apparently some born here, need to understand. This idea of Australia being a multi-cultural community has served only to dilute our sovereignty and our national identity. And as Australians, we have our own culture, our own society, our own language and our own lifestyle.”

This culture has been developed over two centuries of struggles, trials and victories by millions of men and women who have sought freedom.”

We speak mainly ENGLISH, not Spanish, Lebanese, Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, Russian, or any other language. Therefore, if you wish to become part of our society . Learn the language!

Most Australians believe in God. This is not some Christian, right wing, political push, but a fact, because Christian men and women, on Christian principles, founded this nation, and this is clearly documented. It is certainly appropriate to display it on the walls of our schools. If God offends you, then I suggest you consider another part of the world as your new home, because God is part of our culture.”

We will accept your beliefs, and will not question why. All we ask is that you accept ours, and live in harmony and peaceful enjoyment with us.”

If the Southern Cross offends you, or you don’t like “A Fair Go”, then you should seriously consider a move to another part of this planet. We are happy with our culture and have no desire to change, and we really don’t care how you did things where you came from. By all means, keep your culture, but do not force it on others.”

This is OUR COUNTRY, OUR LAND, and OUR LIFESTYLE, and we will allow you every opportunity to enjoy all this. But once you are done complaining, whining, and griping about Our Flag, Our Pledge, Our Christian beliefs, or Our Way of Life, I highly encourage you take advantage of one other great Australian freedom: THE RIGHT TO LEAVE’.”

If you aren’t happy here then LEAVE. We didn’t force you to come here. You asked to be here. So accept the country YOU accepted.”

I suspect this wasn’t a Howard quote as the language is just too inflammatory. Very amusing parody for his re-election message:

[kml_flashembed movie="http://www.youtube.com/v/oUvN1B4d_2I" height="400" width="500" /]





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